Relationship Growth
Add Something New to your Sex Life

For more on this topic listen to Female Orgasm Podcast Episode 5

Women and men face challenges when they decide to incorporate Deliberate Orgasm into their sex life. At the same time they experience growth in their relationship.

Terry: Were there any challenges incorporating DOing, Deliberate Orgasm, into your sex life?

David: Sure, I mean whenever I have taken on something big like that, sometimes your ego gets involved. But you just set that aside and actually have your attention on her.  Then you are just doing the right thing. Occasionally things come up, but we are friends and we can talk about those things. She does that with me and I do that with her. I get an opportunity to know her. We become closer through that and the dates become better. So it is always good.

Becca: The challenges incorporating DOing into my sex life were at first, I wanted to find a person I wanted to have those kinds of experiences with. That actually was not that hard - I was a single woman at the time, and I was checking out different people.  But then there was some point when I was like "You know I really like this, and I want this to be part of my life every day". Then I had to really think about how I wanted to have my life set up, where I would have those kind of experiences that I wanted with the regularity that I wanted them. You know it wasn't too long before I figured out how to do that, and have that. Then it has just grown from there.

I wouldn't say challenging but I would say at this point, there is always growth that happens with it. There are always things that are changing, and my desire is always changing. So it teaches me something about myself and my relationship with him. The people in my life that have this as part of their lives - it is always a constant source of conversation and growth for us. 

Terry, a Welcomed Consensus instructor, talks with two students, Becca and David.

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